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Open Letters to Michael G. Fitzpatrick, US Representative from Pennsylvania

 
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PleaseOfferHelp  

Aidpage Open Letter: Desperate for opportunity...

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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Dear Government Officials,

I have an excellent abundance of senior level marketing experience and simply cannot locate work. At 51, I have been out of work since 2007, and have sent out over 900 résumés since. To no avail, I cannot obtain work and have been on a limited amount of interviews. My résumé is fine with the exception of not finishing college, and the clearly noticed age of 51, based on the dates of employment.

I am extremely qualified to lead teams and mentor subordinates and capable of managing large budgets.

I have been forced out of my apartment, cannot afford anything and have recently moved in with family as a complete burden.

This is not how I intended to live, have no idea where to turn for help and am completely desperate. Once a successful businessperson who achieved high levels of recognition for his performance, I am now at wits end and need an opportunity to devote myself to a company and reap the benefits of my hard work.

Please advise me what I am eligible for, or if there are any opportunities for me in government. I am extremely adept at marketing and advertising, IT and process-driven occupations.

Sincerely,

David

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wcindy38  

Aidpage Open Letter: I AM LOOKING FOR HELP SO I CAN GET BACK FOR SOMEONE ELSE MISTAKE A LIAR FOR A X BOSS

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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I was laid off from one job and dismissed from another because poor management , health hazards and a boos corp that lied. I went to my unemployment hearing and they had attorney. I didn't feel I would loose and someone told me I would have another hearing if i did. I lost because corp boss give false info at hearing, I have filed appeal and also filed with cival court. I have lost my home going to loose my car and only get part payment from unemployment. I have spent thanksiving in car Christmas in car and now easter in car. I know what it is like to be hungry and it is not fun. I feel there should be another hearing so I could prove myself I WOULD WIN. I cost me 50.00 to certify the letters with money I didnt have. That is how sure I am that I could of won case. I think laws should be different on this and something should be done with employers that lie in court.   If I loose my car the first of this month I am done I might of well give up. I found a job . jUST WAITING FOR DRUG TEST TO COME BACK AND i AM NOT WORRIED ABOUT THAT. i NEVER DONE DRUGS AND ALWAYS WORKED HARD.    IS THERE ANY HELP OUT THERE.  I NEVER MISSED WORK IN THE 6 YRS WITH THIS COMPANY OR NEVER BEEN WROTE UP. THERE WAS ALOT OF DISCRIMINATION WITH THIS COMPANY I BIT MY TOUNG TO KEEP MY JOB AND A LOT OF HELTH ISSUES WITH THE  FOOD.

CINDY

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Aug1994  

Aidpage Open Letter: No help well what comes before poor

To the attention of:

Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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I have been stabbed by our country never mind state and now I suffer with my family more then I ever did I want to take my kids to these peoplw who screwed us and want them to explian to them another christmas is gone these kids think there bad no fgifts from santa Thanks alot

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mary123  

Aidpage Open Letter: Child support Laws

To the attention of:

US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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HELLO MY NAME IS TINA AND I LIVE IN PHILADELPHIA I WANTED TO STATE THAT IAM VERY DISAPOINTED IN OUR LEGAL SYSTEM. mY CHILD SUPPORT IS OVER 6,OOO IN AREARS AND I CANT GET Any help Ive been down to court number of thimes. my x husbands spousal support order in Deleware County iss being covered first. thats against supreme court rule. Not Only that sh hadme arrested and lyed on stand. because I live in Phi;ladelphia i feel things are getting worse do i need to move to a different dtst.

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memelovesyou  

Aidpage Open Letter: PLEASE HELP US GET ON OUR FEET SO WE DONT LOSE OUR HOME PLEASE!

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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hi my name is elizabeth paules and im writing this letter hoping someone can help our family so we dont lose our home we have no income but foodstamps my unemploment ran out no more extentions all utilities are behind and there gonna be shut off our lot rent is behind and they want to take our trailer we have lived here 14 years and live in a 1971 double wide trailer not much to look at but we do own it my self and my husband have worked all our lifes sometimes 2 jobs were not looking for a free handout but we fell on hard times when he got sick and i lost my job due to back and mental problems i am on my third appeal for social security disability i have dropped my lawyer and TIM holdens office is now working with me on my disability claim i we have no money to buy my 16 year old daughter and 3 year old grandson for christmas i have called every agency church,charity,even called the governors office please if there is anyway you can help us we would be so thankful to get back on our feet thank you for taking the time to listen to me  

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Sister in Christ  

Aidpage Open Letter: In need of transportation for church

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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I am writing this letter because I know there are a lot of people out there that has cars and vans alike that they don't use meanwhile there are people that really needs them. write now my church is in need of a van to transport brothers and sisters to the church to get some spiritual filling from God words, and it breaks my heart when I can not help them, so they have to stay in thier homes, if I had the money I would gladly help them because is doing God work, I am disable and I could do but so much, we just need a van to transport them, Please if you can donate one we would appreciated and will put you in out prayers, which in this moment is being done, by telling God to touch your heart to help us. my # is 484-294-0108. I cannot work because of my condition, and the state don't give enough to support ourself, u and I know everyone is going through a hard times, when we know that some people are out there with enough and waste their money on something that is really unnecessary. But I pray that they could see the needs of the others and be blessed, well this will be all for now. Love your sister in Chirst

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00wiskers00  

Aidpage Open Letter: Desperate Help needed

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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I'm not one to ask for help from the government, but in my current situation, i have no family that can help, and have no friends. I have searched for assistance through programs and other areas and have found that there is no program or assistance for people like me. we are the people who are just above the right income for assistance and to far below it to save for times like this. I am unemployed and have been searching for work. Despite the drastic cut in pay, i was offered a job doing construction work for $9/hr. Here is the problem, the person/company that offered said i have to find a way to work, no buses will go there and i don't have any money to take a bus if it did. I have a 1997 Ford Taurus that i own, but it is broke down and there again i have no money to fix it. Is there a way you can help people like me who want to help themselves? I'm not asking for Handouts, i'm asking for grace. I just need assistance getting my car back on the road, i'll take it from there. I don't mind working for less money than i'm used too for a short time, it will be enough to feed us, and pay our rent until i find work in my field. I am a registered voter in PA, I do pay my taxes. I have worked all my life and the one time i need help i can't find it. I have to pay for people i have seen with my own eyes cheat the sytem, I have to pay for people who are fully capable of working but choose not too because they get "free" money from our government--money i worked my butt off for. All i'm asking is help me get back on my feet, i'm desperate. I have nothing left to sell, and no one to turn to. For all that i have paid in, i ask only for a fraction to get me back to work, and i'm not asking to keep it, you could always hold it out in taxes. If i had to pass a law myself it would be simple, and look like this:

An act to allow for assistance of American workers. This act will assist US Citizens in getting to/back to work in the event of a passing life difficulty. (lossed job/ broken down car/etc)

The act allows for a voucher to be used at any establishment participating.

the voucher is defined as a payment to the establishment for services/ products rendered.

The voucher will cover parts/labor of qualified vehicles.

The voucher will cover Auto Insurance for a specific period

The voucher will cover gas expenses for a specific period (until first check or following pay check is given from employment)

The voucher is for assistance and will be deducted from income tax returns at the end of tax year (no interest, this wil just hurt them more). or in the event one owes more in taxes it will serve as a deduction. the deduction will be calculated at 50% of the original assistance voucher.

The voucher can be obtained online via the online application, requiring the use of I-9 forms and a SS#. or through the state office for public assistance.

The voucher can be used for gas/public transportation/ repairing an automobile/purchasing a used certified automobile. The voucher is good for repairs up to the value of the car as defined by Kelly Blue Book. The Voucher is good for the purchase of an automobile for not more than $2000 (or as defined as good running condition and road worthy)

I know about the Ways to Work program, but again i do not qualify.

Thanks for reading

I know it doesn't really matter to you that i don't work, but it does to me and my family.

Thanks,

Joseph 

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givemewingstofly  

Aidpage Open Letter: In a world like this that the goverment as created..how do really suppose people to live a healthy quailty life?on 940.00 a month..

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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I got on social security for depression ...and since i been on it i am more depressed and have gotten so sick i know have cronic pain and fybermerlgia and smoke so much have copd now from the finicail stress on me......940 a month to live on in this world doesnt make it for me I am getting sicker and sicker... in this life style.... I so need transportation to get around for doctors ect... have no car now to get around anymore I cant afford one !!!!! is there any hope for me to get a car?at all? PLus these others things below if you have any information to help me please let me know... my mouth needs a tooth pulled cavity fix and I need particals no dental no money...so my teeth rot and i got without particals to eat... my eyes are blurry need glasses no money.... the doctors I see all want co payments no money cant pay it.... the quality of my life as gone down the crapper ... This as ruined my pride and self esteem and confidence and as paralized me ....with pain and suffering..... I am seeing a therapist and doctor ...for mental health but this isnt even helping the fact im so friggen poor... I cant take it...and now my person is so sick ...I feel life death is warming over me..... my life as become a pure nightmare.... I work@ companies bulding defense for over 24 years my daughter jion the national guard my son jion the air force my dad fought in the korea only to come home to be killed at work hose wasnt what it was today my grandfather fought in world war II my brother served in the navy my cousin in the air force and so on.. my whole family of men..and me being there daughter sister mother niece granddaughter I am left to live this way I cant have anyone live with cause of section 8 i was told i cant move into a bigger a place with my daughter and son in law or i will loss my voucher..I wanted them to help me in all ways..instead the goverment as made it for me to suffer and to become more sick and hopless that my situation will ever get better live under poverty being with cronic pain living with drama and copd knowing I have no way out I smoke more and more from being stressed out killing myself..so instead of giving me money to live a beter life ,every month thinking its not pratical to give me this money to have a car and dental and vision and good food and co payments paid off.. to give me pride and my self esteem back and mostly my indepentence back and not rely on others for what soicial security lacks what they really should be doing... you took away my spirit and love for life...and now even my death ..I see no joy at all living this way no happeness and no peace and security and no self but get this in the end when self destruct you will pay millions to keep me a live when you should of took this money and gave it to me to live and instead of making me live this way to die then give the money to save me from what could of been prevented...I feel bad for my kids cause I cant not be there for them emtionallly fincially and they look at me like this is going to be thier life the way I have to live with mine...I have no hope for things to get better I have to self worth cause living under the poverty level I am very frustrated cause deep down you dont care about me ...as Sheryl Faro a single woman who worked and her family sacraficed thier live for this country really i have to say you dont really i think under stand what we suffer and how we live makes us sicker and more depressed I have no hope to better off my fincial status to get a car to get partical to eat with or to get vision to see right.. or get money to buy clothes I need or to even try and take care of myself all by myself....I never had cronic pain in my life I never hardley smoked at all but now KNOWING VERY WELL! I am stuck with no hope I have lost all faith in my life and my way of seeing this world and lost all faith in a goverment I thought took care of people that truely worked hard .. and cared for this for any mishaps to have them live at least comfortable with very little worry...to get better....Honestly the way I live my life way way way under the poverty level I would rather be died to end this suffer and struggling and my self worth being stipped to nothing.. but emptyness and crying constaitaly ..I am way to depressed and now aching with cronic pain and now copd to rise to the occasion and over come everything the goverment as made me face...I also will be telling the United Nation the care of americans just as I..I have tried to help the goverment with ideas to save money improve lifes ect... and Rich dont listen to the poor .. and your the ones that made me poor nor listen to words I speak totally hopeless This is all way to much for one person to handle .....If I was to even take my p

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katrina1956  

Aidpage Open Letter: PA Disabled Woman - 55 Yrs. Old Desperately Needs One Compact Older Gas-Saving Sedan-No Transportation at All

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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Need reliable/ dependable donated auto desperately

katrina1956
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on Jul 20, 2011

I am receiving SSDI, and working as an elderly part time (10 hrs a week:use bus) personal caretaker. Have had numerous med problems since 1982. Worked full time in I.T. for over 30 years, not thrilled to be on SSDI. Live with totally disabled common law husband, very low income-he is unable to work. Lost a fallopian tube(tumor/hemmorage) in 1982, was unable to bear a child due to endometriosis. Continued to work, took care of my mom (moved her in with me):dementia, CAD/CHF(30% heart function), 2 broken/replaced hips, diabetic. At the same time, took care of disabled husband:3 nervous breakdowns. Had a car at the time, took family care med LOA-unpaid from work. Developed diverticulitis yr.:2000, during caretaker period:life-flighted(hemmoraging:(3 1/2 pints blood in abdomen); had 1/2 intestines & 1/2 colon removed, clinically dead for 4 min. in helicopter. Brought back to life on roof of PGH, PA Hospital, spent 1 month in there,with respirator breathing 100% for me for 2 weeks. Put into drug-induced coma.Afterwards, got another job & continued to work, needed surgery again after 3 yrs. Repair of 3 abdominal hernias; unable to carry/lift more than 10 lbs., mesh net inserted into abdomen-1 step away from lifetime colostomy bag. Had to have 1985 Chevy Blazer junked, due to massive repairs/rusted, etc. Cashed in all retirement savings early to take care of family. Eventually had to file bankruptcy just to avoid foreclosure of small home. Need to work part time, now living pay to pay(SSDI). If anyone can help, I need an older donated small auto(sedan-automatic) to attend dr. appts, work p/t, grocery shop, etc. Cannot carry groceries over 10 lbs in weight(especially on bus), due to abdominal pains/flareup issues. 10 miles north of Pittsburgh, PA area. State cutbacks on transportation and bus routes due to economy. May God Bless Richly You. Email Address: toxictwins2@yahoo.com

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wg2217  

Aidpage Open Letter: I get by with a little help from my elected officials

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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Dear Sir or Madame:

                              My name is William Gallagher and I am a disabled and unemployed person who would like to be gainfully employed. But although I have an updated resume on The Ladders, Monster, and several other job sites and have placed or emailed in applications to 60 or so places in the last year...I've had little to no response. Here I am a father of three, a family of five living in a two bedroom apartment in Pennsylvania. I died and was resuscitated and spent several days in a coma. This was back in 1994. After that it was three back surgeries, Heart surgery, Brain surgery...

Now it is 2011, Mr Obama is in the White House, 2012 is ominously looking financially worse, and I would like my children to have at least something of a childhood and memories that are other than tragic. Can someone help?

Can I get grants? Everytime I try and look on line for what is available for disabled parentsit's more than an uninformed person can fathom. Or there are services that you have to pay for. I used to make $103,000.00 at my last job at Pridential Fox Roach Realators in Devon, Pennsylvania. But when my manager left and the new regimen came in...I apparently was an easy way to cut their bottom line. I had setup the Help desk to be fully web accessed by all IT departments and took their closed calls from less than 50% to near 97%. And metrics were available at the click of a button to anyone who needed them in management. The only mistake i made was doing my job to completely, and not making  the help desk helpless without me. But then again I always worked under the idea that you work smarter not harder, give everything you can to your occupation without impacting your family and their lives, and make sure that my job can be done if I am there or at home.

Perhaps, all those mornings I came in at 4AM to make sure everything that needed to be maintained was completed so that I could deal with any crisis that arose and still start the work day with the rest of my employees and be able to leave before 6PM.

Isn't there anything available for a disabled family man who would like to take his children to Disney World once before he dies or they go off to college? A man who wants to contribute to his families well being instead of just sitting here in pain 24/7 and do something productive in my given field? I've taught myself computers back in 1983 starting on an IBM 8086 with 265K of RAM that my parents (whom help my family get by and are in their eighties) bought for $3000.00. From their I've continually forged ahead making 10K, 25K, 40K, 66K, 86K, then finally over the 100K mark. I was the first of six children in my family to do that without completing collegeand who's brothers and sisters are all college Graduates. One works in our State Department as a financial attache' to Malaysia, My oldest brother is a nuclear chemist and pharmasist and works and teaches at Harvard, The others are Nurses or Computer Analysts. I used to be rather proud of myself but now I fgeel like a burden. Please help us. As I WANT TO WORK or just give my family a vacation once before I die.

 

Thank you for your time and consideration in these matters.

Very truly yours,

William Gallagher

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katrina1956  

Aidpage Open Letter: PA disabled woman over 50 needs auto desperately

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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katrina1956
online

Posted by katrina1956

on Jul 20, 2011

I am receiving SSDI, and working as an elderly part time (10 hrs a week:use bus) personal caretaker. Have had numerous med problems since 1982. Worked full time in I.T. for over 30 years, not thrilled to be on SSDI. Live with totally disabled common law husband, very low income-he is unable to work. Lost a fallopian tube(tumor/hemmorage) in 1982, was unable to bear a child due to endometriosis. Continued to work, took care of my mom (moved her in with me):dementia, CAD/CHF(30% heart function), 2 broken/replaced hips, diabetic. At the same time, took care of disabled husband:3 nervous breakdowns. Had a car at the time, took family care med LOA-unpaid from work. Developed diverticulitis yr.:2000, during caretaker period:life-flighted(hemmoraging:(3 1/2 pints blood in abdomen); had 1/2 intestines & 1/2 colon removed, clinically dead for 4 min. in helicopter. Brought back to life on roof of PGH, PA Hospital, spent 1 month in there,with respirator breathing 100% for me for 2 weeks. Put into drug-induced coma.Afterwards, got another job & continued to work, needed surgery again after 3 yrs. Repair of 3 abdominal hernias; unable to carry/lift more than 10 lbs., mesh net inserted into abdomen-1 step away from lifetime colostomy bag. Had to have 1985 Chevy Blazer junked, due to massive repairs/rusted, etc. Cashed in all retirement savings early to take care of family. Eventually had to file bankruptcy just to avoid foreclosure of small home. Need to work part time, now living pay to pay(SSDI). If anyone can help, I need an older donated small auto(sedan-automatic) to attend dr. appts, work p/t, grocery shop, etc. Cannot carry groceries over 10 lbs in weight(especially on bus), due to abdominal pains/flareup issues. 10 miles north of Pittsburgh, PA area. State cutbacks on transportation and bus routes due to economy. May God Bless Richly You.

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Jason56  

Aidpage Open Letter: need help

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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i need financial help period. not good typer... please help.

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Allycat  

Aidpage Open Letter: RSD/CRPS - A NURSE'S STORY (AETNA WILL NOT PAY FOR PROVEN TREATMENT FOR RSD/CRPS)

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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   I am a 46 year old, female registered nurse. I have been a nurse since 1993, when I graduated from nursing school at the age of 28. I originally graduated with a BA in Psychology, & then I went back to school and graduated with a BS in Nursing. I knew from the moment I set foot into my first class in nursing school that I wanted to work in the specialty of critical/intensive care. I loved being a nurse. I started working in the cardiac intensive care unit upon graduation from nursing school in 1993. I loved caring for people who were extremely ill, for it afforded me the opportunity to make a difference in the lives of my patients & their families in a very special, fast-paced environment. I never had a patient whom I could not make smile, regardless of their condition. Little did I know that my nursing career would be cut short so quickly.   

 

 

On August 31, 1995, I went to work just like any other day. I had no idea when I awoke that morning that this was going to be my last day working as a bedside nurse. I was getting my patient out of bed so she could sit in a chair for a while. My patient was on a ventilator and she was not fully conscious, so I had to use a machine called a Hoyer Lift to help me get her to the chair. The Hoyer Lift is something like a hammock on wheels. I had another nurse helping me out. We got my patient into the hammock and then we began to hoist her into the air so that she could be wheeled over to the chair. I had my arms underneath the hammock that was holding her, just in case she should fall out of the hammock, while the other nurse was maneuvering the wheels of the lift toward the chair. The wheels became stuck on the side of the chair, and the other nurse was trying to separate the lift from the chair. While she was doing this, the hammock began to sway back and forth, and, in a twist of fate, my patient started to slip out of the hammock and toward the cold hard floor. I caught her, preventing her fall. Since she was semi-conscious and on a ventilator, so she was “dead weight”, and she weighed in at 250 pounds. I had previously undergone back surgery (which was a success), and when I caught my falling patient, two of my vertebrae smashed down onto each other, squeezing the disk between them out. This left the nerve in between the two vertebrae being crushed by the vertebrae. I also tore my rotator cuff in my shoulder. My nurse manager told me that I should have let my patient fall to the cold hard floor instead of catching her and thus injuring myself. I was appalled by her response and felt completely unappreciated.

 
My injuries necessitated two subsequent surgeries – a spinal fusion and a shoulder surgery to repair my rotator cuff. The spinal fusion was in my lower back, and it involved opening up my back and my stomach in order to get to my spine from the front and the back. It also involved harvesting some bone from my own hip to use in the fusion. It was a very involved surgery, and the recovery was extremely painful and complicated. I have never been the same since that back surgery. I live in constant chronic pain. I was subsequently diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, and then RSD/CRPS. I was forced to go on workman’s comp (to collect workman’s compensation insurance). I was on workman’s comp for 12 years, during which time I was videotaped at my home and followed and videotaped every time I left my home, which was quite infrequently and usually involved a doctor’s appointment. I was shown these videotapes in an attempt to stop my workman’s compensation insurance which, of course, failed, since my case was 100% legitimate. My point in telling you all of this is that, from the moment of my accident, I was disrespected – first by my nurse manager and then by the workman’s comp insurance company. This disrespect led to a severe decrease in my self-confidence and inner strength. After 12 years of being videotaped, followed and harassed, I finally made the decision to end my workman’s comp case. I could no longer stand to be treated like a criminal when, in fact, I was legitimately injured while putting my own safety on hold in order to save my patient from further harm. It is because of this that I was forced to begin coverage by/under my husband’s health insurance company.
 
Since my diagnosis, my RSD/CRPS has become quite complex in nature. I suffer from severe chronic pain all over my body, but in my lower back and both legs in particular. My entire body is swollen with fluid – my legs are so swollen that I can hardly walk without the assistance of a cane now. I can no longer stand for more than a few minutes without having to sit down due to the horrific pain. Even driving is difficult, because it involves having to lift my leg up and down, from the pedal to the brake and back again. I can no longer go shopping or marketing for food. I cannot even go to my doctors’ appointments without having a member of the office staff come downstairs and get me with a wheelchair and wheel me up to the office. I also experience severe sweating from my RSD/CRPS. The sweating is so bad that I can hardly go outside during the summer months, and, even in the winter months, sweat literally pours down my body and my face when I am in a store where it’s warm inside. I suffer from rashes all over my body, temperature changes in both of my legs and frequent infections. Last year I was hospitalized three times for cellulitis and staph infections. I am currently on an antibiotic due to another infection in both of my feet. The burning pain is almost constant now. I get sharp shooting pains in my back and legs that feel like someone is sticking me with sharp needles. When I take a shower, the water feels like thousands of needles hitting my skin at once. I am awakened from sleep by the pain. As a result of some of the pain medication I had to take, I developed such severe dry mouth that I ended up losing all of my natural teeth. I wore upper and lower dentures for over a year, during my thirties. Then I finally had dental implants placed on top and on the bottom. However, due to my compromised immune system from the RSD/CRPS, I developed a severe infection in my lower jaw. This eventually went into the bone of my lower jaw, necessitating more surgery to remove the lower dental implants and place a drain in my lower jaw. I spent that entire summer inside of a hyperbaric oxygen chamber in order to facilitate the healing. My knee joints have been so badly damaged that I now need two knee replacements. I have developed degenerative disk disease and permanent nerve damage in my lower back – I will have to live with this for the rest of my life. I am a complete physical mess, and I live with more physical and emotional pain than any person should ever have to deal with in one lifetime.
 
Being diagnosed with Fibromyalgia and then with RSD/CRPS was devastating. Nobody believed that Fibromyalgia even existed, and still, to this day, some doctors still don’t believe. And the RSD/CRPS is so highly misunderstood by so many doctors that it was very difficult to receive the treatment that I so desperately needed and so honestly deserved. Finally, after many misdiagnosed years, I was lucky enough to discover Dr. Robert Schwartzman of Philadelphia Pennsylvania. He is a leader in the field of RSD/CRPS and I am truly blessed to be his patient. People literally come from all over the world to see him – from many different countries. He was involved in RSD/CRPS research and in providing the “Ketamine Coma” treatment in Germany. Now he provides RSD/CRPS patients with both in and out patient ketamine infusions. I initially began receiving ketamine infusions through Dr. Schwartzman as an outpatient. I would get three infusions a week for 2 weeks whenever my symptoms would flare up. Then, about 6 years ago, my legs and feet swelled so severely that I could not wear shoes. I had to sleep in a chair, for I could not stand to lie down without severe pain. It was then that Dr. Schwartzman admitted me to the hospital to receive ketamine intravenously around the clock, as an inpatient. For five days I was in the ICU receiving a constant drip of ketamine, and the swelling in my legs and feet went away. So did the majority of my pain. In fact, with the ketamine drip I felt like my old self again, just like I did before my accident in 1995. I did not necessitate an inpatient stay after that, but did require some outpatient booster ketamine infusions.
 
Presently I am in desperate need of hospitalization for 5 days, in the ICU again, for an around-the-clock, intravenous ketamine infusion, as ordered by Dr. Schwartzman. As I previously described to you, I can hardly walk, cannot sleep, can hardly drive and live in constant, severe chronic pain. I have infections, swelling of my entire body, temperature changes, etc. I am currently a patient at a wound care center for my infections in my feet, cannot stand from a sitting position without horrific pain in my knees, etc. I could go on and on, but I will stop explaining my symptoms now. The REAL problem now is that I am no longer receiving workman’s compensation insurance, so I am currently covered by my husband’s health insurance company, which happens to be AETNA. The plan we have is called AETNA CHOICE POS II. It is a high end plan that is supposed to cover the majority of our health care needs. My husband’s job takes a good portion of his salary from each of his paychecks to cover the cost of our health insurance with AETNA. We don’t have a choice when it comes to choosing which insurance company to go with, for his job only provides one insurance company to its employees – AETNA. The problem is that AETNA DOES NOT COVER INPATIENT OR EVEN OUTPATIENT KETAMINE INFUSIONS FOR THE TREATMENT OF RSD/CRPS. Even though it has been proven, via numerous studies, that Ketamine can not only successfully treat the symptoms of RSD/CRPS, but that it can also, in some cases, actually prevent the RSD/CRPS from advancing or getting worse, AETNA still refuses to cover it. I was told by Dr. Schwartzman’s office staff that it would cost between $30,000 – $50,000 for a 5 day inpatient stay in the ICU, receiving intravenous Ketamine around the clock, which is what I was told by Dr. Schwartzman that I need. My husband and I cannot afford this, despite how desperate I am to have the treatment that I feel that I deserve and that I know from past experience will bring me relief. I read somewhere on the internet that AETNA IS THE ONLY INSURANCE COMPANY TO DENY IV KETAMINE INFUSIONS FOR THE TREATMENT OF RSD/CRPS.
 
Despite my worsening physical and emotional state, AND despite my diagnosis of RSD/CRPS by Dr. Robert J. Schwartzman, MD., a leader in the diagnosis and treatment of RSD/CRPS, AND despite the fact that inpatient, intravenous, round-the-clock Ketamine infusions have helped me tremendously in the past, AND despite the fact that intravenous Ketamine infusions have been proven to successfully treat RSD/CRPS , AETNA STILL WILL NOT PAY FOR INTRAVENOUS KETAMINE FOR THE TREATMENT OF RSD/CRPS. I am in desperate need of this treatment. My husband and I are not wealthy by any means, but he still makes too much money for me to qualify for any medical aid from the state. Ironically though, he doesn’t make enough to pay for me to receive the Ketamine treatment. I’m stuck in the middle of these two extremes, and I am falling through the cracks of the system. I have not been able to work since August 31, 1995, the date of my accident. I did have one part-time job in 2007, which lasted for several months. It was a sedentary job that involved phone work, which was all I could physically accomplish. Now, however, even that type of work is too physically demanding for me, given my current deteriorating condition. Because of my inability to work since my accident, I have not earned enough work credits to qualify for unemployment insurance either.
 
I fear ending up in a wheelchair permanently if I do not receive the Ketamine treatment that I both need and deserve. I was a great nurse, always being an advocate for my patients and “going to bat” for them whenever the situation called for such actions. I cared deeply about my patients, so much so that I ended up placing their health and welfare ahead of my own. I loved caring for my patients and their families during their hour of need. But now that I am the patient, it seems that nobody is “going to bat” for me. Nobody is placing my health and welfare first. I know what is wrong with me and I know how to treat it. I even know which doctor to go to for help. The only missing piece in this puzzle of horrors known as RSD/CRPS is getting my health insurance company to pay for my proven treatment. If there is some way – any way – that you can be of assistance in getting AETNA to do their job and pay for this proven treatment for RSD/CRPS, I would be eternally grateful. I am willing to go to any extreme to receive the treatment that I deserve. I will do interviews with anybody you want and/or tell my story to the public if that is what it will take to make this problem of nonpayment by AETNA cease.
 
Thank you so very much for taking the time to read my “novel” of a letter. I look forward to hearing from you in the not-so-distant future!
 
Sincerely,
 
Allycat, RN
 

 

  

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Aidpage Open Letter: MY BABY

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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My daughter’s behavior and her course of actions grew increasingly aggressive. Thinking about the abuse she had to live with was not acceptable to me, it was scary to hear her ask for my help and I knew that abuse was the reason for her behavior changes. I went to my baby’s pediatrician for advice. She directed me to the hospital to get it documented. I did that twice. The first time I went was because my baby was acting out some pretty alarming  behavior. My daughter was standing by my side looking into a mirror she yelled and was very frightened. She repeated to me “mom do you see her?”  I observed her behavior, it was alarming to me. I asked my daughter what was wrong. She said mom do you see her? I said who baby?  She said “mayonna, she’s got a gun and she wants to kill me.” The person she saw shooting herself was herself. Of all the abuse that I have witnessed I was not prepared to deal with the thought of her hurting herself.  For her father to reject the fact that our daughter was hurting inside from him and others was angering me. It angered me more that he wouldn’t recognize the harm that was being caused from his own children from another woman. Since he didn’t want to help his daughter I sought after the help for her. She was to be seen by three dr. in a series of unfortunate circumstances. There are trained professionals out there but they can’t be utilized if the other parent refuses the treatment. He was afraid that his daughter would tell them the truth and then he would lose his other children. He fought diligently to avoid the professionals that I had lined up to help my daughter. He went as far as to say that I coerced my daughter into saying all the bad things she has said about her father and the people that was hurting her. The more I tried to protect her from the abuse the more rejection I received from children and youth.

 I sought out a case worker to help identify the abuse and receive protection for me and my daughter. The women who came to my house as a representative to the agency were bennesa macardo. She was nice and friendly, she acknowledged my daughters verification of the abuse and told me that everything would be fine. Court day arrived, I finely thought it would all be over. No more tears, no more threats no more strange alarming behavior form my daughter, it was all going to end. Nothing prepared me for what was about to happen. The women who were supposed to protect my daughter testified that she did not feel that there was any concern for abuse projected by the baby’s daddy.  Mary jachovich, supervisor of my case worker three days later lied in to protecting her employee. You have lied to protect a lie in the courts, because I questioned your ability to see the truth. Your anger provides me the answer. I was told by C.Y.S. supervisor, if you don’t stop seeking out documentation for abuse I will grant custody to daddy. Oppps, she screwed up in her anger at the hospital, she corrected her words and said I will suggest to the court that daddy receive custody. Who has the power here? No matter what I tell you towards their approach to this case, their decisions and corrupted policies will not change. So many lies and no honesty to themselves or our children. Children and youth have a political partnership with the court system. Question is, does it go all the way to the Supreme Court? Does mother supreme safeguard over each level to assure they protect the order and power of their agency even if they are wrong? You bet they do. That is why a lawyer is unwilling to attack the moralities of the agency. There is too much fault in the system to protect one from abuse. A lawyer is unwilling to seek retribution because they will lose contribution.

With all the pain and injustice to the parent that had lost a child or the child who has lost a parent, retribution justifies the actions of the C.Y.S. Agency. They have made decisions knowingly towards families that have been victimized and the victimization continues by their inability to say they are wrong. The court depends on the agency to keep order on families who can’t live civil, but at the price to whom? The lawyer that I had received at a pro-bono price due to my finances was not working for me. I was told that she was the best around to handle children’s cases because she worked side by side with children and youth. So what is the problem with that? You would think that this is a dream team. It could be if in the case it where C.Y.S. on your side. I will have to prove without a reasonable doubt that children and youth are wrong.

I have been under attack to save face for me and my daughter.  I didn’t find out there was a conflict of interest with my lawyer until my second trip to the hospital.  Why did she continue to represent me knowing that there is a predisposition in the outcome of my case. Several things stuck out when speaking to my lawyer, the first time consultation with her the first thing she asked was “so, what are you looking to get out of this?” I replied custody. She replied “that will never happen” then I knew. I realized that this women’s best interest was for herself and her reputation and the reputation of the agency she worked for.  I have been threatened by c.y.s. to step down from protecting my daughter.  These where detestable people, some bad people who didn’t like to be inconvenienced with interruption in there way of being in control. No wonder they believed the daddy, he exuded control.

Remember this, C.Y.S. can’t be stop once they have made a decision against you.  No one can stop children and youth from shielding an abuser from your child. However if you cross their power to rule they will take all your credibility, then your child, and you have nothing to defend yourself with. I usta think highly of children and youth. I called out children and youth to help me protect my daughter so many times in fact that they said I cried wolf and my cries will no longer be heard. I saw that my daughter was hurting, others have testified seeing her in defensive situations with her daddy.  C.Y.S. was sucked into the charm of an abuser who knew how to minimize his appearances as an abuser by projecting himself as a victim. My babies father most definitely new how to hurt me, it wasn’t hard for him to take my baby and never let me see her again. He was backed by the vary people I went to for help. My baby is being detained from me because they felt remorse for my baby’s daddy. He cried to be protected from me.

C.Y.S. promote levels of abuse that are acceptable to their polices. There is no abuse acceptable in my guiding principle as mother. C.Y.S does not have the Childs best interest written into their policy.  Their policy is to determine the stereotype of an defective parent, then isolate the parent from that child no matter the consequences to the child.  The policy is to ensure the Decisions C.Y.S. make stand solid. The  involvement of the exploitations by the agency and their court are united. By defending your parental rights, intimidation is circulated by their unity.  Decision to protect their authority and credibility to the agency comes from court. It’s time to break it down tear it apart and standup to those who are wrong. I didn’t stop defending my baby and now she’s gone. When you have nothing, you have nothing to lose.

 If I had been abusive to my child like my baby’s daddy is to his women and his children, there would have been no conflict between us. We would have hurt our child and no one would have stepped in.  Sometimes children and youth get it wrong. Since they elected not to undue their wrong because of the embarrassment it will cause them, it is as set in stone, I will never be able to defend or prove my case. So my daughter and I both lose,  c.y.s. get another successful win and abuse still goes unchecked.

 Are they implying that I am causing more damage to her by defending her accusations towards her father and the abusive people around  her. My daughter and I were inseparable. The bond we have developed was amazingly strong and we both felt secure together. I knew that her father and her family was not as concerned about her education and well-being as I was. Just ask his children. His way of helping his children was to call them names like your dumb, idiot, jerk off.  My own baby came home from visitation and called me a stupid bitch. I asked her why she said that, she said her dad calls me that all the time. I know that to be the truth because when we were still together he referred to his ex-wife as jerk off. His own kids eventually started to do the same. They hated there mother in part by  the hate their father pushed on them. They felt anger towards their mother because their mother abandoned them.  She kicked him out and handed her children over to us a month later after we started dating. Why can’t children and youth see the signs. Why do they pray on innocent people to put their power of control out their? They have made me an example. Made to show others that they are backed by court.  Whatever decisions I have made to protect my children it did not warrant punishing me from my daughter. Whatever their defenses is I know I can defend and prove that they are wrong. If I prove that they are wrong do you think I will get my daughter back? Do you think I will get an apology for my discomfort and the discomfort of my children and family. Will my daughter get compensated for their crooked policy and aggression towards my pain and the pain of my family? I JUST WANT MY BABY BACK>>>>>>>

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Aidpage Open Letter: lost my baby

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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My daughter’s behavior and her course of actions grew increasingly aggressive. Thinking about the abuse she had to live with was not acceptable to me, it was scary to hear her ask for my help and I knew that abuse was the reason for her behavior changes. I went to my baby’s pediatrician for advice. She directed me to the hospital to get it documented. I did that twice. The first time I went was because my baby was acting out some pretty alarming  behavior. My daughter was standing by my side looking into a mirror she yelled and was very frightened. She repeated to me “mom do you see her?”  I observed her behavior, it was alarming to me. I asked my daughter what was wrong. She said mom do you see her? I said who baby?  She said “mayonna, she’s got a gun and she wants to kill me.” The person she saw shooting herself was herself. Of all the abuse that I have witnessed I was not prepared to deal with the thought of her hurting herself.  For her father to reject the fact that our daughter was hurting inside from him and others was angering me. It angered me more that he wouldn’t recognize the harm that was being caused from his own children from another woman. Since he didn’t want to help his daughter I sought after the help for her. She was to be seen by three dr. in a series of unfortunate circumstances. There are trained professionals out there but they can’t be utilized if the other parent refuses the treatment. He was afraid that his daughter would tell them the truth and then he would lose his other children. He fought diligently to avoid the professionals that I had lined up to help my daughter. He went as far as to say that I coerced my daughter into saying all the bad things she has said about her father and the people that was hurting her. The more I tried to protect her from the abuse the more rejection I received from children and youth.

 I sought out a case worker to help identify the abuse and receive protection for me and my daughter. The women who came to my house as a representative to the agency were bennesa macardo. She was nice and friendly, she acknowledged my daughters verification of the abuse and told me that everything would be fine. Court day arrived, I finely thought it would all be over. No more tears, no more threats no more strange alarming behavior form my daughter, it was all going to end. Nothing prepared me for what was about to happen. The women who were supposed to protect my daughter testified that she did not feel that there was any concern for abuse projected by the baby’s daddy.  Mary jachovich, supervisor of my case worker three days later lied in to protecting her employee. You have lied to protect a lie in the courts, because I questioned your ability to see the truth. Your anger provides me the answer. I was told by C.Y.S. supervisor, if you don’t stop seeking out documentation for abuse I will grant custody to daddy. Oppps, she screwed up in her anger at the hospital, she corrected her words and said I will suggest to the court that daddy receive custody. Who has the power here? No matter what I tell you towards their approach to this case, their decisions and corrupted policies will not change. So many lies and no honesty to themselves or our children. Children and youth have a political partnership with the court system. Question is, does it go all the way to the Supreme Court? Does mother supreme safeguard over each level to assure they protect the order and power of their agency even if they are wrong? You bet they do. That is why a lawyer is unwilling to attack the moralities of the agency. There is too much fault in the system to protect one from abuse. A lawyer is unwilling to seek retribution because they will lose contribution.

With all the pain and injustice to the parent that had lost a child or the child who has lost a parent, retribution justifies the actions of the C.Y.S. Agency. They have made decisions knowingly towards families that have been victimized and the victimization continues by their inability to say they are wrong. The court depends on the agency to keep order on families who can’t live civil, but at the price to whom? The lawyer that I had received at a pro-bono price due to my finances was not working for me. I was told that she was the best around to handle children’s cases because she worked side by side with children and youth. So what is the problem with that? You would think that this is a dream team. It could be if in the case it where C.Y.S. on your side. I will have to prove without a reasonable doubt that children and youth are wrong.

I have been under attack to save face for me and my daughter.  I didn’t find out there was a conflict of interest with my lawyer until my second trip to the hospital.  Why did she continue to represent me knowing that there is a predisposition in the outcome of my case. Several things stuck out when speaking to my lawyer, the first time consultation with her the first thing she asked was “so, what are you looking to get out of this?” I replied custody. She replied “that will never happen” then I knew. I realized that this women’s best interest was for herself and her reputation and the reputation of the agency she worked for.  I have been threatened by c.y.s. to step down from protecting my daughter.  These where detestable people, some bad people who didn’t like to be inconvenienced with interruption in there way of being in control. No wonder they believed the daddy, he exuded control.

Remember this, C.Y.S. can’t be stop once they have made a decision against you.  No one can stop children and youth from shielding an abuser from your child. However if you cross their power to rule they will take all your credibility, then your child, and you have nothing to defend yourself with. I usta think highly of children and youth. I called out children and youth to help me protect my daughter so many times in fact that they said I cried wolf and my cries will no longer be heard. I saw that my daughter was hurting, others have testified seeing her in defensive situations with her daddy.  C.Y.S. was sucked into the charm of an abuser who knew how to minimize his appearances as an abuser by projecting himself as a victim. My babies father most definitely new how to hurt me, it wasn’t hard for him to take my baby and never let me see her again. He was backed by the vary people I went to for help. My baby is being detained from me because they felt remorse for my baby’s daddy. He cried to be protected from me.

C.Y.S. promote levels of abuse that are acceptable to their polices. There is no abuse acceptable in my guiding principle as mother. C.Y.S does not have the Childs best interest written into their policy.  Their policy is to determine the stereotype of an defective parent, then isolate the parent from that child no matter the consequences to the child.  The policy is to ensure the Decisions C.Y.S. make stand solid. The  involvement of the exploitations by the agency and their court are united. By defending your parental rights, intimidation is circulated by their unity.  Decision to protect their authority and credibility to the agency comes from court. It’s time to break it down tear it apart and standup to those who are wrong. I didn’t stop defending my baby and now she’s gone. When you have nothing, you have nothing to lose.

 If I had been abusive to my child like my baby’s daddy is to his women and his children, there would have been no conflict between us. We would have hurt our child and no one would have stepped in.  Sometimes children and youth get it wrong. Since they elected not to undue their wrong because of the embarrassment it will cause them, it is as set in stone, I will never be able to defend or prove my case. So my daughter and I both lose,  c.y.s. get another successful win and abuse still goes unchecked.

 Are they implying that I am causing more damage to her by defending her accusations towards her father and the abusive people around  her. My daughter and I were inseparable. The bond we have developed was amazingly strong and we both felt secure together. I knew that her father and her family was not as concerned about her education and well-being as I was. Just ask his children. His way of helping his children was to call them names like your dumb, idiot, jerk off.  My own baby came home from visitation and called me a stupid bitch. I asked her why she said that, she said her dad calls me that all the time. I know that to be the truth because when we were still together he referred to his ex-wife as jerk off. His own kids eventually started to do the same. They hated there mother in part by  the hate their father pushed on them. They felt anger towards their mother because their mother abandoned them.  She kicked him out and handed her children over to us a month later after we started dating. Why can’t children and youth see the signs. Why do they pray on innocent people to put their power of control out their? They have made me an example. Made to show others that they are backed by court.  Whatever decisions I have made to protect my children it did not warrant punishing me from my daughter. Whatever their defenses is I know I can defend and prove that they are wrong. If I prove that they are wrong do you think I will get my daughter back? Do you think I will get an apology for my discomfort and the discomfort of my children and family. Will my daughter get compensated for their crooked policy and aggression towards my pain and the pain of my family? There is no ending to this story until somebody is willing to step up.

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Aidpage Open Letter: SSI Dependent Benefit

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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I would like to know why there is no dependent's benefit attached to SSI. I understand that SSI is nothing more than welfare for the disabled, however, not everyone who receives SSI is single and/or has a history of being unemployed.

I held a paying job from the age of 13. Due to some life circumstances, I was unable to achieve my dream of going to college to become a medical doctor. I wound up entering the corporate world at the age of 16 where I worked 60-80 hour weeks without vacations. At different times in my life I held down two jobs. I have a very strong work ethic. I always gave of my time and money to charitable causes.  

Fast forward a few decades to when I took a break from the work force to do the most important job in the world:raise my children. My plan was to be home with them until they went to school full time and then I would return to paid work.

But, once again, life had other plans. While at home raising my children, I became ill. (Funny, my life plan never involved me not working.) One thing led to another and I had to accept my diagnosis as well as my prognosis. I have an illness for which there is no known cure. It's not contagious. It involves the nervous system. It's called RSD-Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy. Now they are grouping it with other pain conditions and calling it CRPS-Chronic Regional Pain Syndrome. In addition to the RSD, my health deteriorated in other areas including my ability to hear. Imagine having young children and not being able to hear their cries.

I was married to an abuser. I managed to get my children and myself out. I don't know how, now, but I did.

I applied for regular disability since it wasn't that long ago that I worked, making over $30k per year plus benefits. I was denied because I didn't have enough work credits in the preceeding ten years. Of course I didn't! I was home raising my children, duh! I was advised to apply for SSI. I did. I was denied. I got a lawyer and won. I don't receive child support. You can't force someone to pay child support if they don't want to. I don't care what laws are on the books. They find ways around them. My ex is never going to pay support and so I am left to raise my children on SSI.

The SSI is meant for one person and even then it is still below the federal poverty level. Imagine trying to raise three children on an income that isn't sufficient for one!

Why? Why am I being punished because I made the decision to stay at home with my children while they were young? Why is that so wrong? Why am I now condemned to a life of abject poverty because I chose to do what I thought was the right thing for my children and then became ill? Why couldn't I have been given work credit as a homemaker to fill the gap in my "paid" employment? My SSDI would have been much more than SSI because it is based on salary.

Why are my children being forced to live, no, not live, barely survive is the proper term, in extreme poverty just because their mommy got sick? Isn't it bad enough that they have to watch me be sick, help me do things that I can't do for myself, and live with the knowledge that I won't see my grandchildren? Why does the government pour salt into open wounds by forcing them into this situation? Why are you creating a new generation of poverty stricken families?

There's an old saying:Money follows money. Which it is true. The flip side of that is also true: Poverty breeds poverty. How are my children ever to get out of this situation? You might come back with the child support being paid. Wrong. My ex didn't make enough money to begin with for any support to make a dent in our situation. I was the breadwinner. I made the real money, not him.

I worked my entire life. I didn't plan on getting sick. No one does. I never planned for getting knocked out of the workforce in my late 30's. I still had over 30 years of working ahead of me. Now what am I supposed to do?

Trying to survive every day with a debilatating disease is horrific in and of itself. The stress of watching your children suffer, truly suffer, because you cannot provide for them is hell itself. Why are you adding to the pain? Why are you destroying families in this fashion? Why was my role as a mother not counted for something?

I am the backbone of this country because I am a mother! You've destroyed my life and now my children don't stand a chance because no matter what I do, I cannot change attitudes. Everyone, and I mean everyone, believes that low income equals low intelligence. It doesn't matter how many A's my children score. Once they have the label of low income, it never leaves. They are ostracized, criticized and patronized. The discrimination they and I endure makes my skin crawl!

You can solve it! It's so easy! For those who have a work record, simply look and make allowances for parents (male and female) who have made a decision to take some time off to be at home with their families. Give them work credits for it! Being a parent is the most difficult job there is. I think work credits are justified. Give us a dependents benefit. Our children need a monthly stipend so we are not forced to have another generation in poverty! We have to give them a chance! They are innocent! No one is to blame. Life happens. People get hurt or become sick. Nothing shakes your world, your security, the very foundation upon which you build your life more than having a sick parent. Stop compounding it by forcing them to live in extreme poverty! Why are you doing this to our children? Why are you hurting them? Why? We're not lazy! The majority of us have worked. Now we are sick and injured! There is a big difference between us and those who seek welfare.

I beg of you, acknowledge it. I hate knowing that my children are financially better off if I die. At least then they would get a social security supplement because I have worked. They would get three times what we are getting now. In my darkest moments, it seems like the only way. We cannot survive any longer on this income. I am grateful to have any income at all, but I feel cheated because I paid into the system for years and then when I needed it, because of a technicality, it was not there for me. There are tons of others who have never paid a dime yet receive so much more than I.

You have a responsibility to right this wrong. Stop hurting the children. Stop hurting those who are already sick and injured. Aren't we, as a society, supposed to help those who cannot help themselves, those who are the weakest and neediest? I always have and still do when able. Not with money but with my time and in other ways.

I strongly urge you to look at the current SSI guidelines and ask that you make the necessary changes so that those with children are treated fairly and receive proper compensation that would allow them to live at least at the poverty level for their family size. I'm only asking for the federal poverty level. I'm not asking to get rich or live a decent life. I'm talking about the ability to survive. If the system doesn't change, I urge HHS or SSA to keep track of mortality data to determine causes of death. Something needs to be done. We are dying and not just from whatever illness, trauma, injury or disease is ravaging our bodies. We are dying from malnutrition because we feed our children first, lack of medical attention and medicine, stress and so much more. We are parents and we will always provide for our children first and ourselves last even if it kills us in the process.

Why are you making us choose? 

 

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Aidpage Open Letter: Health care

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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To whom it may concern, I'm sure the President could care less about people who are in need of health insurance in this state. Yes, I know they say they are but let's be real about it! He will never see this. I'm not sure who will? I remain in my home day after day after day because I am in need of dentures. This site is a good indacation I am one of so many others who need something so many people take for granted. I see people who say how much they care about the people and want to change the way "The People" are treated and then turn around and buy million dollar homes and cars! When and where will anything change? NOT IN MY LIFETIME!!!!! Once in office all the promises are a thing of the past. I would work in exchange for dental care and would love to see as many people as possible get together and try to figure out a way to raise money for those who are in need. Change can happen if we work in numbers and care about one another.                     

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Aidpage Open Letter: GRANDPARENTS NEED SERVICES WITHOUT HASSLE

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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We are grandparents raising our three year old grandson. We have had him since he was released from the hospital after being born addicted to heroin. We are both in our fortys and we both work every day. Our grandson goes to a local daycare that is owned and operated by a neighbor. She is a godsend and a blessing. I have had a daycare subsidy since 2009 (we got our grandson in 2008), and recently had to renew my application. I have been determined ineligible for the subsidy! The reason is because my husband is a self-employed trainer at the Meadows, and we are able to write off expenses for the harness racing business on our tax return. The CCIS worker told me that because we write off expenses for 2010 that put his income into the negative, then they have to treat it like my husband does not work, therefore making us ineligible for the subsidy! My AGI for 2010 was under $18000.00. I have a 16-year old son, and a daughter in college! The daycare payments of $125.00 per week will cripple us financially! I cannot even believe that this is happening to us. My husband puts in 70 hours a week. Some years are better than others, but he has been trying to get back on his feet due to an illness in 2009/2010. He made under $10,000 in 2010 and yes his expenses were more than his income--which happens in many small businesses. I have filed an appeal with CCIS. I feel like I am being penalized for trying to support my family and raise my grandchild. I have been so stressed about this that I cannot sleep very well lately. Something has to be put in place for the grands out there raising grandkids. We need a better financial support in this state. We have raised our families and have taken control or our grandbabies, which saves the goverment lots of dollars compared to the little bit of services we have to claw for. I am hoping to win my appeal so that we can continue to send our grandchild to the daycare he loves until he is school age. I am hoping that the SYSTEM does not force us to go broke, and struggle more than we are already. The parents of these children get off easy. They get to continue their bad behavior with no worries about childcare, food, clothes, medicine, shoes, etc. They are coddled and not held responsible at all! We taught our children right from wrong and have raised four of them. Only one of them has made a mess of his life (our grandchilds father), and again with no consquence where this small child is concerned. Even his mother just continues doing heroin and sucking the system for foodstamps and medical insurance. We work and pay taxes, but yet we are treated like we are doing wrong! The millions of grandparents need some support from all of you--our elected officials (and we are the ones who vote!). I hope you will make some drastic changes and eliminate the difficulty us grandparents face when trying to receive services to aid in raising our grandchildren. This should not be this difficult or stressful for us.

 

Thank you,

Donna Strejcek

strejcekmdkn@aol.com

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Aidpage Open Letter: Financially Struggling

To the attention of:

Barack Obama, US President;
Tom Corbett, Governor of Pennsylvania;
US Senators from Pennsylvania: Patrick J. Toomey, Robert P. Jr. Casey;
US Representatives from Pennsylvania: Allyson Y. Schwartz, Bill Shuster, Chaka Fattah, Charles W. Dent, Christopher P. Carney, Glenn Thompson, Jason Altmire, Jim Gerlach, Joseph R. Pitts, Kathleen A. Dahlkemper, Lou Barletta, Mark S. Critz, Michael F. Doyle, Michael G. Fitzpatrick, Patrick Meehan, Robert A. Brady, Tim Holden, Tim Murphy, Todd Russell Platts;
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Hello my name is Joe McGrath Jr.  I have been majorly financially struggling and was wondering if there is any assistance or agencies that are able to help me with assistance with my bills.   I keep receiving phone calls from collection agencies for my past due balances on my student loans of $50,000, electric bill of past due balance of $300.00 and my income taxes for 2009.   I live on my own and make $20,000 a year.   I have been applying for better opportunities and assistance to help me have been told I make to much money.   I have been in contact with agencies and always trying to find information I can apply for assistance but have not found anything.   If there is anything you can do to help I would appreciate it.   Here is my contact information

Joseph P McGrath Jr

518 Prospect Avenue

Apartment C

Horsham, PA 19044

215-206-6285

joemcgrathjr@comcast.net

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